Thought of the DAY

I just do not understand why men/women get into a serious relationship or even get married when they really are not commited to the other. They lie and cheat the whole time so they can have secret relationships on the side. So I ask WHY? I just dont understand it, there is plenty of men and women that want to have open relationships or just want to sleep around. So why destroy a person mentally. BE COMMITED OR DON'T COMMIT and save a person from years of torment, with them blaming their other significant others they have in the future of wronging them!

Here is another thing...what the hell is up with people still wanting to be with someone AFTER they cheated...I mean I really do understand you should forgive but God never told us to be foolish either. Along with this point ok so you forgive them for cheating but then if they do it a SECOND TIME...OH HELL NO...that is where EVERYONE should draw the line....I mean it even says in the bible that should be the only way out of a marriage is if the spouse has commited adultery, which shows that it is that bad, but ya know in some cases I do truely believe you have got to know what you are getting yourself into! For instance, you should NEVER marry someone that has already cheated on you several times, I mean the first time is bad enough but SEVERAL times, come on WAKE UP....those kind of people unfortunately and  obviously had it coming if you are gonna knowingly stay with a cheater than brace yourself for an extremely rocky horrible life style!!!!!!